The 3 Beliefs You Need to Believe In If You Want to Heal Your Broken Heart

Banuel Dogayman
2 min readJul 12, 2020

Before you start a new journey, you must believe. The first question you may ask is what do you mean by writing a journey? Well, now after a breakup you have to find yourself again, heal yourself, and move on to a new, stronger way.

The second question you may ask is what do you mean by writing believe? You have to believe in 3 things to complete your journey to happiness. Let me share them with you.

Believe it’s possible

You have to believe that it’s possible to heal a broken heart. People had breakups for hundreds of years, many people are going through it. A broken heart can be healed, it’s more than possible and it can be a gift if you learn what you can from the breakup. People all over the world found new love after a breakup. For example, my heart was broken too and today I am over it and I am so happy. It’s not something easy at all. Losing someone you love is hard and I don’t say that you will heal yourself in one day. But you must believe that a broken heart can be cured.

Believe in yourself

You have to believe in yourself and in your abilities to go through the breakup. Everyone has what he needs to achieve his goals. You have all the skills you need to heal yourself and to move on. I know you have, you should know that too, because as Confucius said: “The man who says he can and the man who says he can’t, are both correct”. If you want to move on and to be happy again you must believe in yourself and in your ability to do so.

Believe you deserve it

You have to believe that you deserve to be happy and to be loved. You deserve to have an amazing relationship. I know you may be blaming yourself or underestimate yourself. But let me make that clear, you deserve to love and to be loved. It’s a gift that everyone is given. You deserve to complete the journey and to be happy again.

I know it’s not gonna be easy and you will have to put work in it, but in the end, you will be happy. Believe in the journey, believe in yourself, believe you deserve it and happiness will find you faster than you think.

Do you feel lonely? Do you feel like no one understands your pain? I have good news for you, you’re not alone! There are so many people who are in your place and this why I created a supportive community. Join our amazing Facebook group and connect with others who try to heal their broken heart. You will also get access to more information, tips and my personal support.
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Banuel Dogayman
Banuel Dogayman

Written by Banuel Dogayman

I share my learning journey of finding medicine for a broken heart. Join my facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/UnbeatableHeart

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