Every Breakup Is Different, Also Yours
Every relationship is different. Every person is different. The pain you feel after a breakup can be influenced by so many factors. Some “gurus” tell you, you need to heal your heart after a week or a month, this is so wrong. In this article, you won’t find tips but you will find motivation. This time I just want to give you the right to feel whatever you feel.
Listen to your heart
A broken heart hurts and consumes a lot of energy. The pressure you feel from outside when people want you to forget your ex and move on. The pressure you put on yourself when you are angry because you can’t move on so easily, just makes it harder for you.
Every breakup is different because you have your personality and your feelings, you have your values and the way you were educated, your relationship was different. Your goals are different and in general everyone is unique and you are also. So why when our heart breaks people expect us to act in the same way?
You are special
When you understand that you are unique and that the way you feel is normal, you will be able to move on. Because moving on isn’t only about doing the right things, of course, there are a lot of mistakes you should avoid doing, but before it. Moving on is about having self-compassion, is about loving yourself, is about eliminating all the self-judgment.
Moving on is about believing, believing in yourself, in the process. You can do it, just believe in yourself, because I can’t help if you don’t believe you can. I can’t guide you if you aren’t ready to help yourself.
Let’s Connect
Do you feel lonely? Do you feel like no one understands your pain? I have good news for you, you’re not alone! There are so many people who are in your place and this why I created a supportive community. Join our amazing Facebook group and connect with others who try to heal their broken heart. You will also get access to more information, tips and my personal support. Click here to join the group!
Do you prefer the audio version? Want to discover more broken heart tips? Click here to listen to the podcast episode!
