How long will it take to heal your broken heart?

Banuel Dogayman
2 min readJul 14, 2020

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You are the only responsible

It depends on you. It can take one month, one year or one life. The only one responsible is you. Healing a broken heart is not something simple. The person you love isn’t in your life anymore even if you want him to be, and that’s not easy, I know. It can make you go crazy, it can make you want to fight for him and try your hardest to make him come back. I don’t say you shouldn’t try to make your ex come back because it might work. I believe you shouldn’t do that because you deserve someone who will never give up on you.

You have to let go

To start your healing process, you have to decide you want to move on. You have to understand that you need to let go. Let go of the dreams about you together, let go of the life you thought you would have, let go of the feelings you feel right now, and let go of the person you love. Once you decide that you want and ready to let go, you will start your healing process. Of course, you will have some ups and downs and moments when you want to give you. It’s normal and it’s part of the healing process. The moment you decide that you want to heal your broken heart is special. It’s a moment you start a new way.

Don’t give up if it’s hard because you deserve to be happy. You will make errors during the way and do things you shouldn’t do, but that’s not important as long as you stick to your decision to move on and to let go. Be loyal to yourself and your future. You deserve more than just crying on your ex and you deserve a better love than the one you had.

Let’s Connect

Do you feel lonely? Do you feel like no one understands your pain? I have good news for you, you’re not alone! There are so many people who are in your place and this why I created a supportive community. Join our amazing Facebook group and connect with others who try to heal their broken heart. You will also get access to more information, tips and my personal support. Click here to join the group!

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Banuel Dogayman
Banuel Dogayman

Written by Banuel Dogayman

I share my learning journey of finding medicine for a broken heart. Join my facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/UnbeatableHeart

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