It’s Really Hard To Let Go

Banuel Dogayman
3 min readMay 14, 2021


Today I want to talk about letting go, on one hand, it’s something simple to do and on the other hand, it’s really hard to implement. Yet it’s one of the most important things you need to do to overcome your broken heart.

I’m sure everyone just tells you to let go, that time will heal everything, and that you have to forget the past. I’m also sure that you agree. But the problem is to do it. It’s one thing to know what the right thing is and it’s another thing to really do it. I want to give you some more insights about what is letting go, explain why it’s hard and yet why it’s important to do it.

First of all, letting go is hard for everyone at any age in any situation. When it comes to love you have to let go of the person you loved and still love. You have to let go of all the memories you have, all the experiences, all the good times. You have to let go of all the feelings you have, of all the plans you have, of all the shared dreams. Also, you have to let go of all the habits, the daily routine.

But it doesn’t end here. When you let go, you also have to give up on the person you love. You give up on the hope of being together again and it’s something hard to do. When you let go, you admit that your ex wasn’t as perfect as you believed. You admit that your relationship failed, that you failed. It requires a lot of courage to admit all those things. It demands you to confront reality as it is, and this is hard.

I believe that they are times in life where you have to be brave and this time you have to be brave for yourself, which is the most important thing you can do. The price of not letting go is too high and you can’t afford that. The price of having your ex always in your head and believing you still can be together will prevent you from moving on and find happiness.

When you let go, magic happens. You will be able to start a new life, you will start learning from the relationship. You will become a better person and a better partner and this way, you will make your next relationship better. You will finally be able to start moving toward the life you deserve and want.

It’s your time to let go, to do whatever you need to be happy. Life is not easy, but you need to have the courage to fight, to find your way to happiness. You will need patience because it will take time, but I can promise you that if you start that journey you will be very happy in the end.

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