Letting go doesn’t mean that you don’t care about someone anymore. It’s just realizing that the only person you really have control over is yourself

Banuel Dogayman
1 min readNov 15, 2018

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It’s not easy to give up, to accept the past won’t return, to realize the relationship ended. It’s even more difficult to stop loving the person you loved for a long time. Sometimes we think it is impossible to let go.

You have to do that for your good. Giving up and letting go doesn’t mean you’re weak. It doesn’t mean you don’t care about the other person or that you forget him. The only thing letting go means is that you are ready to do the right thing for yourself.

You have to focus on yourself and how you feel. Your only goal now should be to feel better and freat again. You have to respect your ex’s decision and opinion even if you don’t like it. You can’t control their thoughts.

Let go and you will feel the relief!

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Banuel Dogayman
Banuel Dogayman

Written by Banuel Dogayman

I share my learning journey of finding medicine for a broken heart. Join my facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/UnbeatableHeart

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