Should You Run After Your Ex?
Running after their ex is a mistake a lot of people do. If you do this or don’t know if you should do that, the answer is here.
Don’t run after your ex. I can’t say it better than that. It’s so wrong and let me explain why.
Respect Your ex decision
Your ex decided to break up with you even if you don’t like it, don’t agree with it, or don’t want it. Your ex is a person as well and has its thoughts and decisions and you must respect them. If you take away your ex freedom you will lose yours. Karma is always there and if you hurt someone it will come back. You can’t take someone’s else rights to think and do whatever they want. I know it’s hard to accept but you have to control yourself and let your ex decides.
Take the time to reflect
When you run after your ex you’re losing all the breakup thing. You can learn so much when you are alone and also you should give yourself time after the breakup to think. You also have to decide if you want to continue with that person. Maybe you will see that it’s better to leave things as they are. Maybe you will learn the things you need to do. There are a lot of benefits in your situation right now and if you run after your ex it will busy your mind and you will not be able to think of anything else.
Why would you do that?
Your ex decided to let you go. Do you want to be with someone who gave up on you? I don’t want to. It’s something you have to be aware of and see if it fits you. I think you deserve someone who will fight for you and do anything they can to be with you. If it’s not the case with your ex, why would you run after them? It’s a question you should ask yourself. And as I said before when you stop running after your ex you will have time to think and take into consideration all the things you should.
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