The “Perfect” Relationship I Had

I am a very romantic person. I am also a very social person. Since I remember myself I liked to be surrounded by people. I just love to share my life with someone else. Everything I do, I prefer to do it with someone, going to movies, buying clothes or even ordering a pizza. I am just a super friendly person.

I was sixteen, I had some relationships till then, but nothing serious. I wanted to have that romantic story, you know, like the ones you see in the movies. I was tired of the single life, yes I know, a deep thought for sixteen years old. I wanted a girlfriend, but a serious one, no someone who will come and then go. I was ready for real love. I also had that fear of staying alone forever. ( Yes, again I know, too deep).

I found it hard to get into relationships, I was always overthinking. I was trying talking with girls on Facebook or at school, but nothing serious happened because I always let my fears to win. I was close to giving up and was ready to say “I knew it, I knew I would be alone forever”.

One day, my friend told me I should think less when it came to girls. He said I seemed like someone with obsession. I decided to try what he said and would just take it easier without overthinking. A few days later, a friend invited me to her birthday. I came with a very calm mood, nothing special. There were some girls, but I remembered my friends’ words and I tried to enjoy and not to think about anything. Suddenly, she appeared, a very beautiful lady. She started to talk to me and we talked for a couple of minutes. I felt like “love is in the air”. I decided to ask her for her phone and she agreed.

We started to text and things went very good. I promised myself that this time I will be optimistic and just let the things go as they should go. It worked! We started dating, we were in the right way.

As the relationship went deeper, the fight with my thought went deeper. I began to be afraid, I felt insecure and had thoughts that things would go wrong. I didn’t know what to do.

I knew I couldn’t let this chance ran away from me and I succeeded overcoming all my fears. We become an official couple and I was so in love. I learned to control my feelings. I found that optimistic and letting things go helps the relationship grow.

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