To Heal Your Broken Heart You Need To Have Faith
Healing a broken heart is a journey, it may be a short one, it may be a long one, but it’s a journey you have to do. You will have ups and you will have downs, you will have days when you think you’re over it and days when you think you will never overcome it. It’s a roller coaster, it’s hard but it’s possible. Not only it’s possible but also, it’s a great lesson. It will make you a better and stronger person.
In order to pass this journey successfully, you will have to have faith and today we will talk about it. Because it’s not easy and if you don’t believe you won’t be able to do it. But having faith is something general, let’s be more specific.
First of all, you have to believe that it’s possible to heal a broken heart. When you don’t believe a broken heart can be healed you won’t be able to move on. When we have no hope, we have no motivation, we see no reason to even start. We give up from the beginning and we let time do its job. But time isn’t under our control and you don’t want to leave your happiness in the hands of something you can’t control. This is why you have to be ready to work and do what’s needed to be happy.
People all over the world, at all ages, cultures, genders have broken hearts. It’s something universal and also the feeling is the same. It hurts and it’s hard to heal. But it’s part of life, it’s part of love. A lot of people find new love after a breakup. People learn from a breakup, they improve after it and they can be happy and healthy. A broken heart can be healed, there’s no doubt about it. You can and you will be happy again if you just believe.
Secondly, you have to believe in yourself and in your abilities to go through this situation. You may believe that a broken heart can be cured in general but think that your situation is more complicated and therefore can’t be healed. Or maybe you think it requires powers and abilities you don’t have. When you believe so, you make the healing process impossible, and once again you leave your happiness in other hands.
Everyone can heal a broken heart, everyone has all the abilities and skills required to achieve this goal. You can let go of the past and you can move on. You deserve to do it, you deserve to be happy, you deserve to live a different life. A quote I like says: “The man who says he can and the man who says he can’t, are both correct”. If you want to fix your heart, you can. You will find the powers that are within you, you will find the motivation, you will find the way and you will do it. But if you don’t have faith, it won’t happen. It’s all up to you and I ask you to choose to fight.
The last thing you have to believe to make the healing process possible is that it’s under your control. People tend to believe that only time heals. Therefore, they give up and cry. They let time decide their future and feelings. They believe there’s nothing they can do to fix the situation, to feel relief, to make the healing process faster, to heal the wounds.
This is a false belief because you can do so many things to be happy. You can take so many steps and decide you want to be happy and it will happen. You have to be ready to work for it, you have to be ready to try your hardest to make it a success story. No one can help you if you don’t want and change your life except you. You have to be ready to fight for your future. You want to be happy, you want to find your “old one” you feel you’ve lost, and you will. But it requires daily work, faith, and readiness.
There’s no magic and it won’t happen overnight, it will be a lie to say so. But it’s possible, it’s worth it and you be happy at the end of the road. Believe it’s possible, believe in yourself, believe in your abilities, and know that you can change your life if you just accept to do it.
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