Want To Heal Your Broken Heart? Love Yourself

Banuel Dogayman
2 min readAug 13, 2020

Self-love is so important because it’s the best solution to your broken heart. Time will help you too but you can’t control time so the second thing that will help you the most is self-love. I want to explain in this article what it means and give you some practical tips, so let’s start.

“We” is now “I”

When you become single after a relationship you can feel like a part of your life is missing. You were used to be a part of a relationship and now you are by yourself. You used to use the word “we” instead of “I”. You were used to having someone in your life and now this person isn’t there anymore.

When my ex broke up with me it was so strange not to have her by my side. I didn’t know what to do. It was hard to find who I was after such a long period of being with her. I built all my dreams and goals with her and suddenly she wasn’t there. I had to begin a journey to find myself and you have to do it too.

After a breakup, you need to build yourself again, gain your self-confidence again, and love yourself again, more than ever. First of all, don’t rush yourself, this process takes time and also don’t think about the end of the road, just think about the next step.

Fall in love with yourself

To fall in love with yourself, you need to explore, start doing the things that you love, that makes you feel good, that make you happy. If you have some habits, you know you love, start doing them in case you stopped it during the relationship. If you don’t know what you love, it’s time to try new things. Go and meet new people, start reading books, try different kinds of sport, travel in the world, and do whatever you think can make you happy till you find it.

Pay attention if there are bad things in your life, things that make you feel bad, and stop them, stop doing them. Now it’s your time to shine and to do whatever you can to be happy and to love yourself. I can promise you it will lead you to real happiness and help you get over your ex.

Let’s Connect

Do you feel lonely? Do you feel like no one understands your pain? I have good news for you, you’re not alone! There are so many people who are in your place and this why I created a supportive community. Join our amazing Facebook group and connect with others who try to heal their broken heart. You will also get access to more information, tips and my personal support. Click here to join the group!

Do you prefer the audio version? Want to discover more broken heart tips? Click here to listen to the podcast episode!

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Banuel Dogayman

I share my learning journey of finding medicine for a broken heart. Join my facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/UnbeatableHeart